Temperance tarot card from the Simply Tarot deck

Temperance Tarot Card Meaning

The Cupbearer
Harmony • Healing • Moderation

You need to give and invest more of yourself, your feelings and emotions into the situation at hand. To improve circumstances, be ready and willing to affirm your commitment and love. Move on from the past where necessary and avoid actions that could be perceived as cold or manipulative.

In

Justice

the message is about retaining enough intellectual clarity to make clear and fair decisions. In contrast, Temperance focuses on the emotions and working hard to maintain balance in relationships. It is very easy to get out of touch with our own feelings, let alone staying in tune with the people around us.

The Subject is likely to be struggling with an important partnership. Relationships of any kind are difficult and it is not possible to be head over heels in love, to remain completely enthralled, with another person over long periods of time. However, withdrawing a loving attitude from a relationship will undoubtedly create more issues.

Dealing with this situation on an intellectual level is not what will help at this time. Subject should not be allowing the head to rule the heart. Sentiment, affection and kindness will count for a lot more and can manifest as reassurance for the other party, easing the problem at hand.

Love & Relationships

Peace begins returning where emotional extremes once ruled. There is healing in slower affection, softer reactions and people who no longer mistake chaos for passion. Love steadies itself through consistency rather than intensity alone.

Material Life

Balance restores itself gradually through moderation, patience and sustainable rhythm. Exhaustion begins easing once extremes lose their grip and life becomes structured around steadier habits instead of survival mode. Security grows quietly through consistency rather than dramatic reinvention.

Notes from the Artist

Temperance is a winged, angel-like, figure hovering at the edge of running water. She is pouring a liquid, back and forth between two chalices very carefully so as not to spill any. Sometimes the liquid shines rainbow colours, sometimes it looks like water. These are symbols self-discipline, the need for nurturing/reflection and balance - all virtues of Temperance.

The image contains the element of Water specifically to draw us into the emotional world of the 'Cups' suit. This card should prompt the subject that they may need to check how they are balancing their logical and emotional approach to any current issues, perhaps there is too much of one and not the other.

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